Reeve wrote this in his 1998 autobiography Still Me (Random House), chapter 11, page 273, where he deliberately scrapped the glib definition of a hero he had recited while promoting Superman twenty years earlier. The words are genuinely his — but his actual sentence opens with “I think” and runs well past “persevere.”
“I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.” Christopher Reeve, Still Me (New York: Random House, 1998), p. 273. Provenance verified at quotle.info
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Provenance
The source
Work
Still Me
Type
Autobiography, written after Reeve’s 1995 spinal-cord injury
First published
25 April 1998 · Random House, New York
Location
Chapter 11, page 273
Now my definition is completely different. I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles. They are the real heroes, and so are the families and friends who have stood by them.
Preceding: his Superman-era answer
Immediately before this, Reeve recalls the question he was asked constantly while promoting the first Superman film — “What is a hero?” — and the answer he used to give: that a hero is someone who commits a courageous action without considering the consequences. The famous line is his repudiation of that answer. Note the last sentence: Reeve meant people living with disability and the families beside them, not a generic slogan.
1998 — the primary source. Reeve publishes Still Me with Random House on 25 April 1998; the hero passage sits in chapter 11, at page 273. Quote Investigator ↗ pins the line to that exact page and credits Reeve with originating it, finding no earlier speaker.
The fuller passage.Wikiquote’s sourced entry ↗ carries the quotation at greater length, showing that Reeve set the line against his old Superman-publicity definition and closed it by naming who he actually had in mind.
2004 — into the inspirational anthologies. The remark is reprinted in Words That Shine Like Stars, edited by Douglas Pagels (Blue Mountain Press, 2004), page 32 — the second citation in QI’s notes ↗. From roughly this point the line circulates detached from the book.
Today — the clipped form. Quote aggregators run the sentence with its opening “I think” removed and no book cited at all; Goodreads ↗ is a representative example, carrying a bare, unsourced version flagged only as community-submitted.
Still Me was first published by Random House in April 1998 and is firmly in copyright in the United States — nowhere near the pre-1931 threshold for the public domain. A Ballantine mass-market edition ↗ followed on 29 May 1999 and the book remains commercially in print. The single sentence is quoted here for identification and verification; the memoir itself is not free to reproduce.
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What actually goes wrong with this one
This is the rare case where the famous name really did say it. Nobody stole this line from anyone, and it is not a fabrication. What has gone wrong is subtler: the sentence has been trimmed at both ends until it means something blander than Reeve meant.
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The openingThe missing “I think” Trimmed
Reeve wrote “I think a hero is an ordinary individual…” — offering a personal definition he had arrived at, not pronouncing a law. Aggregators routinely delete those two words and present it as a decree: the most-shared Goodreads entry ↗ runs it that way, with no book cited and only the site’s standing note that its quotes are community-submitted and unverified. It isn’t universal, and the exceptions are instructive: Goodreads itself hosts the intact passage under a second entry ↗, and LibQuotes ↗ keeps the whole thing and prints a source line for it. The clipped form isn’t the only one out there — just the one that travels.
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The endingEverything after “persevere” Truncated
The sentence does not stop there. It runs “…finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles,” and Reeve then adds who he means: the people living with those obstacles, and the families and friends standing beside them — as Wikiquote’s sourced text ↗ shows. Cut at “persevere” and a specific tribute becomes a fridge magnet.
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The context“Superman said it” Backwards
The line is endlessly posted over images of Reeve in the cape, as if it were the wisdom of Superman. It is the opposite: in this very passage Reeve is rejecting the answer he gave during the Superman press tour — that a hero commits a courageous action without considering the consequences — and replacing it with one he only reached after his 1995 injury. Quote Investigator ↗ quotes both halves of the contrast.
✓The words are authentically Christopher Reeve’s, written on page 273 of Still Me in 1998 — and Quote Investigator gives him full credit ↗ for originating them. If you quote him, quote the whole sentence: the clipped version keeps his words but drops his point.
Context
Why it mattered
On 27 May 1995, Christopher Reeve’s horse refused a jump at an event in Culpeper, Virginia. He went over the front, landed head first, and shattered his first and second vertebrae — paralysed from the neck down, dependent on a ventilator. He was forty-two, and he was the man the world knew as Superman.
Three years later he published Still Me, and in chapter 11 he did something unusual for a celebrity memoir: he went back and corrected himself in public. The definition of heroism he had handed out to reporters in 1978 — brave act, no thought of consequences — was glib, a line cheap enough to hand out on demand. Reeve passes no such verdict on it himself; he simply notes that he gave the answer “dozens of interviews” running, and that his definition is now “completely different.” He lets the replacement do the arguing. And the replacement was not about him. It was about the people carrying those overwhelming obstacles, and — in his own words — “the families and friends who have stood by them.”
He is not describing Superman. He is describing the people in the next bed — and the ones who never left their side.
The line the internet skips
The sentence that almost never survives the trip to social media is the one immediately after the famous line: “They are the real heroes, and so are the families and friends who have stood by them.” It is the sentence that tells you Reeve had specific people in mind — and it is the reason the clipped version, however inspiring, is not quite what he wrote.
The book itself was a phenomenon: eleven weeks on the New York Times bestseller list, and a Grammy for Reeve’s own narration of the audiobook in February 1999. He spent the six years he had left leading the foundation that now carries his and Dana’s names.
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1952–2004 · American actor, director & disability-rights advocate
Christopher D’Olier Reeve was the American actor who played Superman in four films beginning in 1978, and who worked steadily on Broadway and in film — opposite Katharine Hepburn early on, and later in The Remains of the Day. On 27 May 1995 a fall at an equestrian competition in Culpeper, Virginia shattered his first and second vertebrae, leaving him paralysed and ventilator-dependent. He spent his last nine years as one of the most effective disability-rights advocates in the United States, leading what is now the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation and lobbying for spinal-cord research and better insurance coverage.
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Cite this
Primary source — Chicago
Christopher Reeve, Still Me (New York: Random House, 1998), 273.
MLA (9th ed.)
Reeve, Christopher. Still Me. Random House, 1998, p. 273.
APA (7th ed.)
Reeve, C. (1998). Still me. Random House.
This verification page
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