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Be open to a world where you may not understand or agree with the person next to you, but have a drink with them anyways

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Attribution status: Disputed Reuse status: Rights unconfirmed

Snopes investigated this line within a longer passage attributed to Anthony Bourdain and rated the claim Unproven. Its searches of books, interviews, and the documentary Roadrunner did not authenticate the passage. Source and attribution evidence ↗

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“Be open to a world where you may not understand or agree with the person next to you, but have a drink with them anyways” — Anonymous

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Be open to a world where you may not understand or agree with the person next to you, but have a drink with them anyways

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Source and attribution evidence

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  • Snopes investigated this line within a longer passage attributed to Anthony Bourdain and rated the claim Unproven. Its searches of books, interviews, and the documentary Roadrunner did not authenticate the passage. Source and attribution evidence ↗
  • That finding is a limit on the evidence, not proof of an identified fabricator. The Yahoo republication of the Snopes article includes the wording and explains why similar sentiments in Bourdain’s work do not establish this exact quotation. Read the supporting source ↗

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Snopes investigated this line within a longer passage attributed to Anthony Bourdain and rated the claim Unproven. Its searches of books, interviews, and the documentary Roadrunner did not authenticate the passage.

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That finding is a limit on the evidence, not proof of an identified fabricator. The Yahoo republication of the Snopes article includes the wording and explains why similar sentiments in Bourdain’s work do not establish this exact quotation. Source and attribution evidence ↗

Snopes investigated this line within a longer passage attributed to Anthony Bourdain and rated the claim Unproven. Its searches of books, interviews, and the documentary Roadrunner did not authenticate the passage. Source and attribution evidence ↗

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Quotle.info. “Who really said ‘Be open to a world where you may not understand or agree with the person next to you, but have a drink with them anyways’?” Last verified 9 Nov 2026. https://quotle.info/who-said/be-open-to-a-world-where-you-may-not-understand-or-agree/

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