Who really said it
Folks are usually about as happy as they make up their minds to be
There is no substantive evidence that Lincoln ever said or wrote this. The earliest documented appearance is a column by Dr. Frank Crane on 1 January 1914 — roughly fifty years after Lincoln’s death — which credited “Lincoln’s saying” but gave no source, and Crane himself printed at least three different wordings over the years. It spread through Orison Swett Marden, Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), and Disney’s Pollyanna (1960).
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