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Grammar is a piano I play by ear, since I seem to have been out of school the year the rules were mentioned

Attributed to Joan Didion
Attribution status: Attributed Reuse status: In copyright

Wikiquote cites Didion’s essay Why I Write for the piano-and-grammar sentence. This review confirms that secondary quotation, while keeping the essay’s publication history separate from the attribution. Wikiquote on Why I Write ↗

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“Grammar is a piano I play by ear, since I seem to have been out of school the year the rules were mentioned” — Joan Didion

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Grammar is a piano I play by ear, since I seem to have been out of school the year the rules were mentioned

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  • Wikiquote cites Didion’s essay Why I Write for the piano-and-grammar sentence. This review confirms that secondary quotation, while keeping the essay’s publication history separate from the attribution. Wikiquote on Why I Write ↗
  • The Marginalian identifies the essay’s New York Times Book Review publication as December 1976, whereas Wikiquote labels it 1975. No disputed exact date is needed to explain the sentence. Read the supporting source ↗

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About Joan Didion

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Joan Didion wrote the essay Why I Write. Its account of writing links the effects of grammar with the writer’s choices, and the piano comparison is one of its memorable images.

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