The line appears near the end of Jane Eyre, after Jane has refused St. John Rivers’s proposal of a loveless missionary marriage. The two argue and coldly part; Jane’s sister-figure Diana urges her to go make peace with him.
Jane’s narration reads: “I have not much pride under such circumstances: I would always rather be happy than dignified; and I ran after him—he stood at the foot of the stairs.” It is a small, human aside — Jane choosing warmth and reconciliation over wounded pride — that has outlived its plot context to become one of the novel’s most quoted lines.
I have not much pride under such circumstances: I would always rather be happy than dignified.