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I’ll have what she’s having

Not Nora Ephron alone — her account credits Billy Crystal Billy Crystal
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Nora Ephron’s Academy of Achievement interview explicitly credits Billy Crystal with suggesting this customer’s line. In the finished film it is delivered by Estelle Reiner, not spoken by Ephron as personal advice. Source and attribution evidence ↗

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“I’ll have what she’s having” — Billy Crystal

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When Harry Met Sally… (1989)
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I’ll have what she’s having

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Source and attribution evidence

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  • Nora Ephron’s Academy of Achievement interview explicitly credits Billy Crystal with suggesting this customer’s line. In the finished film it is delivered by Estelle Reiner, not spoken by Ephron as personal advice. Source and attribution evidence ↗
  • Ephron describes a collaborative read-through involving Meg Ryan and Rob Reiner. Her account distinguishes the screenplay’s author, the suggested punch line’s contributor, and the actor who performs it. Read the supporting source ↗

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Nora Ephron’s Academy of Achievement interview explicitly credits Billy Crystal with suggesting this customer’s line. In the finished film it is delivered by Estelle Reiner, not spoken by Ephron as personal advice.

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Ephron describes a collaborative read-through involving Meg Ryan and Rob Reiner. Her account distinguishes the screenplay’s author, the suggested punch line’s contributor, and the actor who performs it. Source and attribution evidence ↗

Nora Ephron’s Academy of Achievement interview explicitly credits Billy Crystal with suggesting this customer’s line. In the finished film it is delivered by Estelle Reiner, not spoken by Ephron as personal advice. Source and attribution evidence ↗

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Billy Crystal

Actor and comedy writer

Billy Crystal collaborated with Nora Ephron, Meg Ryan, and Rob Reiner on the scene discussed in Ephron’s interview. Her account credits his suggested punch line while also acknowledging the other contributions that made the scene work.

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When Harry Met Sally… (1989). See the linked evidence for the wording and attribution limitations.

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