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Love built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies

Written by John Donne
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This is a real Donne line — verse 27 of his Elegy II, “The Anagram,” confirmed verbatim in the scholarly text (RPO, from Helen Gardner’s Oxford edition ↗). It was first printed posthumously in his Poems of 1633. The popular web form adds a stray comma (“Love, built on beauty”); Donne’s text has none.

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“Love built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies” John Donne, "The Anagram" (Elegy II), first printed in Poems, 1633

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Work
Elegy II, “The Anagram” (line 27)
Author
John Donne (1572–1631)
First printed
Poems, London, 1633 (posthumous)
Cited from
Helen Gardner, ed., The Elegies and the Songs and Sonnets (Oxford, 1965)

Love built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies;
Choose this face, changed by no deformities.

The couplet as given in the scholarly text. Read in context, it is not a tender aphorism but the punch line of a mock-encomium: Donne is arguing that a plain, unbeautiful woman makes the safer wife, since a love founded on looks perishes when the looks do.

The Anagram at RPO (University of Toronto)

How we know

Public domain

“The Anagram” was written in the 1590s and first printed in Donne’s posthumous Poems (1633), so the poem and its wording are firmly in the public domain. The modern scholarly edition used to confirm the text (Gardner, 1965) is itself in copyright, but the couplet it reproduces is Donne’s own words, unchanged since 1633.

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Genuine — but mis-read and mis-punctuated

Unlike most quotes pinned on famous poets, this one is really theirs. The trouble isn’t the author — it’s the wording and the meaning.

WordingPopular quote sites mis-punctuated

The widely shared form adds a comma after the first word — “Love, built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies” — as on Goodreads ↗. Donne’s text has no comma there: “Love built on beauty…”

MeaningRomantic-quote culture decontextualized

The line is usually served as a wistful truth about love and mortality. In the actual elegy ↗ it is a witty, half-cynical argument for marrying a plain woman — because a love not built on beauty has nothing to lose when beauty fades.

The attribution is sound: it really is John Donne, from Elegy II, “The Anagram,” line 27, per Wikiquote ↗ and the Toronto scholarly text ↗.

Context

Why it matters

Stripped of its poem, the line reads as a gentle meditation on love outliving looks. In place, it is far sharper. “The Anagram” is a mock-encomium — a display piece in which Donne playfully praises a woman, Flavia, whose features are catalogued as anything but lovely, and reasons that this is exactly why she makes an ideal, low-risk wife.

The couplet is the argument’s hinge: if love rests on beauty, it dies when beauty does — so “choose this face, changed by no deformities,” a face with no beauty to lose. It is a paradox typical of Donne, closer to a clever debating point than to a sigh.

A love with nothing to lose when beauty fades — that is Donne’s joke, and his argument.

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Donne underscores the practical logic elsewhere in the poem: “For one night’s revels, silk and gold we choose, / But, in long journeys, cloth and leather use.” Beauty is for a night; durability is for a lifetime.

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About John Donne

John Donne

1572–1631 · English metaphysical poet & cleric, Dean of St Paul's

John Donne was the foremost of the English “metaphysical” poets, prized for knotty wit, audacious conceits and a voice that ranges from the erotic to the devotional. His Elegies and Songs and Sonnets circulated in manuscript from the 1590s and were first collected in print only after his death, in the Poems of 1633. He later took holy orders and rose to be Dean of St Paul’s Cathedral, one of the most celebrated preachers of his age.

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Primary source — Chicago

Donne, John. “Elegy II: The Anagram,” line 27, in The Elegies and the Songs and Sonnets of John Donne, ed. Helen Gardner (London: Oxford University Press, 1965), 19–20; first printed in Donne, Poems (London, 1633).

MLA (9th ed.)

Donne, John. “Elegy II: The Anagram.” The Elegies and the Songs and Sonnets of John Donne, edited by Helen Gardner, Oxford University Press, 1965, pp. 19–20.

APA (7th ed.)

Donne, J. (1965). Elegy II: The Anagram. In H. Gardner (Ed.), The elegies and the songs and sonnets of John Donne (pp. 19–20). Oxford University Press. (Original work published 1633)

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