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My whole life so far, my whole experience has been that our failure has been not to love enough

Attributed to Dorothy Day
Attribution status: Attributed Reuse status: In copyright

Wikiquote cites On Pilgrimage (1948), page 126, for this sentence. The attribution has a specific book locator, but this review did not independently inspect that edition’s page. Source and attribution evidence ↗

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“My whole life so far, my whole experience has been that our failure has been not to love enough” — Dorothy Day

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On Pilgrimage (1948)
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My whole life so far, my whole experience has been that our failure has been not to love enough

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  • Wikiquote cites On Pilgrimage (1948), page 126, for this sentence. The attribution has a specific book locator, but this review did not independently inspect that edition’s page. Source and attribution evidence ↗
  • The quoted passage connects Day’s reflection on love with her reconsideration of political movements. The book citation is reported as Wikiquote’s locator, not presented as a newly checked scan. Read the supporting source ↗

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Dorothy Day wrote On Pilgrimage. In the passage cited by Wikiquote, her reflection on love leads into an account of her changing relationship with radical political movements.

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