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Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy

Reported from a letter to Dorothy Day Thomas Merton 1915–1968
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Letter to Dorothy Day, quoted in Catholic Voices in a World on Fire, p. 180

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“Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy” — Attributed to Thomas Merton, letter to Dorothy Day; quoted via Jim Forest in Catholic Voices in a World on Fire (2005), p. 180. Original letter not inspected.

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Letter to Dorothy Day, quoted in Catholic Voices in a World on Fire, p. 180
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Wikiquote and a sourced BRF article identify a letter to Dorothy Day, but an original letter or complete authoritative edition was not inspected.

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How we verified this

  • Wikiquote credits the sentence to a Merton letter to Dorothy Day, via the 2005 collection Catholic Voices in a World on Fire, p. 180.
  • John Swinton’s BRF article supplies the more specific reference: Jim Forest, “The spiritual roots of protest,” in Stephen Hand’s edited volume.
  • The date of the letter is not established by these references; the collection’s 2005 date must not be presented as the composition date.
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The line is transmitted as advice in Merton’s correspondence with Dorothy Day. The passage continues by treating worthiness as something love may bring about, rather than a test that must be passed before love is offered. Its surviving quotation context is practical Christian concern for one’s neighbors.

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Wikiquote: Mertonen.wikiquote.org

Quotation reference records the Merton attribution and its source or qualification; not an original manuscript.
BRF: John Swintonwww.brf.org.uk

Quotes the sentence and identifies Jim Forest’s chapter, the edited 2005 volume and page 180.
Merton Center biographymerton.org

The university-based Merton Center documents his dates, monastic life, autobiography and writing on civil rights and nonviolence.
Merton biographical referenceen.wikipedia.org

Documents his religious life, publications and social concerns; used for biographical context, not to authenticate the letter.

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About Thomas Merton

Thomas Merton

1915–1968

Thomas Merton (1915–1968) was a Trappist monk at the Abbey of Gethsemani in Kentucky. His autobiography The Seven Storey Mountain brought him a wide readership; his later writing and correspondence addressed contemplation, racial justice, nonviolence and dialogue across religious traditions.

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Letter to Dorothy Day, quoted in Catholic Voices in a World on Fire, p. 180.

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