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Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary

Not Louisa May Alcott — her father wrote it Amos Bronson Alcott Writer and educator
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Amos Bronson Alcott wrote this in Concord Days. The title page identifies him as the author, and the passage occurs in his reflections on visits and letters. Louisa May Alcott is the mistaken credit.

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“Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary” Amos Bronson Alcott — Concord Days (Boston: Roberts Brothers, 1872; June, Letters, p. 124). Attribution or wording remains qualified; see source notes.

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Concord Days
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Boston: Roberts Brothers, 1872; June, Letters, p. 124

Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary. But if one does not stay while staying, better let him go where he is gone the while.

The full two-sentence passage is visible in the public-domain primary text, with the second sentence continuing onto page 125.

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An Alcott family mix-up

The familiar friendship saying is often credited to Louisa May Alcott, but the documented author is her father.

Louisa May Alcott Wrong Alcott

The Wikiquote misattribution entry ↗ assigns the sentence to Amos Bronson Alcott’s book; the primary text ↗ confirms it.

The sentence belongs to Amos Bronson Alcott’s Concord Days ↗, not to a documented Louisa May Alcott work.

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The next sentence qualifies the invitation: a friend’s physical presence is valuable only when their attention is present too. The passage favors unhurried companionship rather than keeping a distracted visitor against their wishes.

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Concord Days primary textwww.gutenberg.org

The 1872 title page names A. Bronson Alcott, and the Letters section prints the sentence.
Wikiquote misattribution entryen.wikiquote.org

Wikiquote explicitly reassigns the line from Louisa May Alcott to her father’s Concord Days.

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About Amos Bronson Alcott

Amos Bronson Alcott

Writer and educator

Amos Bronson Alcott was a writer and educator. Concord Days gathers his reflections on books, conversation, friendship, and the intellectual life around Concord.

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Amos Bronson Alcott. Concord Days. Boston: Roberts Brothers, 1872; June, Letters, p. 124.

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