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The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change

Attributed to Carl Rogers
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Pace University reproduces this line, explicitly crediting Carl Rogers, in Sheila Chiffriller’s faculty profile. That establishes a credible institutional use of the attribution. Source and attribution evidence ↗

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“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change” — Carl Rogers

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The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change

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