The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself
Not Friedrich Nietzsche — actually Rudyard KiplingRudyard Kipling1865–1936 · English author & poet, Nobel laureate in Literature (1907)
Per Quote Investigator, these are Kipling’s words as recalled by journalist Arthur Gordon from a claimed June 1935 interview, first published in Gordon’s Reader’s Digest article “Interview With an Immortal” (July 1959). The Nietzsche credit is baseless — he died in 1900. Note that the popular text drops Kipling’s sentence “To be your own man is a hard business” and changes “you’ll” to “you will.”
“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself” Rudyard Kipling (as recorded by Arthur Gordon, "Interview With an Immortal," Reader's Digest, July 1959) — not Friedrich Nietzsche
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Rudyard Kipling (as recorded by Arthur Gordon)
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“Interview With an Immortal”
First published
Reader’s Digest, July 1959
Interview claimed
June 1935, at Kipling’s home
The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you’ll be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
Arthur Gordon’s rendering of Kipling’s words. The widely shared version omits the second sentence and modernizes “you’ll” to “you will.”
Quote Investigator attributes the passage to Rudyard Kipling, quoted by journalist Arthur Gordon from a claimed June 1935 interview and first printed in Reader’s Digest, July 1959.
The same source finds the Friedrich Nietzsche credit first surfaced in a 1996 Usenet post — implausible given Nietzsche died in 1900 — and has no substantive support.
Its authenticity rests on Gordon’s reliability; he later became a well-regarded editor at Good Housekeeping and Cosmopolitan, per Quote Investigator.
The wording circulating today comes from Arthur Gordon’s article “Interview With an Immortal,” first published in Reader’s Digest in July 1959 — well after 1931 — so the specific published text is in copyright. Kipling’s spoken words were recorded by Gordon; no earlier printed source is known.
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A feel-good line about individualism, pinned on a famous philosopher who had nothing to do with it.
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AttributionFriedrich Nietzsche Misattributed
Widely credited to Nietzsche across quote sites — e.g. The Quotations Page lists it under “Friedrich Nietzsche.” But Quote Investigator traces this credit only to a 1996 Usenet post; Nietzsche died in 1900 and never wrote it.
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WordingRudyard Kipling Misquoted
The circulating text trims Kipling’s own words: it drops “To be your own man is a hard business” and swaps “you’ll” for “you will,” per Gordon’s original as documented by Quote Investigator.
✓The words are Rudyard Kipling’s, recorded by Arthur Gordon and first published in Reader’s Digest in July 1959 — not Nietzsche — and even the Kipling attribution rests entirely on Gordon’s account, per Quote Investigator.
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1865–1936 · English author & poet · Nobel laureate in Literature, 1907
Rudyard Kipling was an English writer and poet, author of The Jungle Book, Kim, and “If—.” In 1907 he became the first English-language writer to win the Nobel Prize in Literature. This individualist passage was attributed to him by journalist Arthur Gordon, who claimed to have interviewed the aging Kipling in 1935, the year before his death.
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Arthur Gordon, “Interview With an Immortal,” Reader’s Digest (July 1959); as documented in Quote Investigator, “The Individual Has Always Had to Struggle to Keep from Being Overwhelmed by the Tribe,” 2 March 2026.
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