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You have to know how to accept rejection and reject acceptance

Attributed to Ray Bradbury
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Credited to Ray Bradbury, but no first-hand interview or book source was established.

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“You have to know how to accept rejection and reject acceptance” — Ray Bradbury (attribution unconfirmed)

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Rejection, Thy Constant Companion, Richard Dooling
Source date
2008

You have to know how to accept rejection and reject acceptance.

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  • Richard Dooling quotes this exact maxim with Bradbury’s name in a 2008 writing essay. Independent later repetition documents circulation, not a primary Bradbury source. Richard Dooling’s essay ↗
  • The column repeats the maxim and credits Bradbury via the Pembroke Observer. The Week’s quotation column ↗

The exact English wording or its first publication has not been pinned down; no public-domain clearance is asserted.

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Why it mattered

Richard Dooling uses the saying while discussing rejection in a writer’s working life. Later quotation columns and a haiku essay repeat the Bradbury credit, but none of those inspected repetitions identifies the original interview, speech or book passage.

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About Ray Bradbury

Ray Bradbury

1920–2012 · American writer

Bradbury was an American writer of fiction, including Fahrenheit 451 and The Martian Chronicles. His advice to writers often circulated alongside his stories, making the distinction between an interview source and a later attributed maxim especially useful.

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Rejection, Thy Constant Companion, Richard Dooling (2008).

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