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Who really said it

A woman knows by intuition, or instinct, what is best for herself

Not Marilyn Monroe — a misattribution of unknown origin Unknown — falsely credited to Marilyn Monroe
Attribution status: Disputed Reuse status: Rights unconfirmed

There is no record of Marilyn Monroe writing or saying this line in any film, interview, letter, or her memoir. Wikiquote lists it under “Misattributed” ↗, noting it is “of unknown origin and date” and reached Monroe only through self-help books and social media. Its true author is not documented.

Last verified 8 Jul 2026 · how we verify · spot an error?

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“A woman knows by intuition, or instinct, what is best for herself” Attributed to Marilyn Monroe, but undocumented — Wikiquote lists it as misattributed and of unknown origin.

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Provenance

What the record shows

Attributed to
Marilyn Monroe (unsupported)
Documented source
None — no film, interview, letter, or memoir
Wikiquote status
Misattributed — “of unknown origin and date”
True author
Unknown

A woman knows by intuition, or instinct, what is best for herself.

Circulated as a standalone caption on quote-aggregator sites and social media; no surrounding context or original publication has ever been produced.

Marilyn Monroe — Wikiquote (Misattributed section)

How we verified this

  • Wikiquote ↗ places the line in its “Misattributed” section and states it is “of unknown origin and date.”
  • Quote-aggregator pages such as BrainyQuote ↗ and QuoteFancy ↗ repeat the Monroe credit but supply no citation.
  • No published book, film transcript, or interview by Monroe — including her memoir My Story — has ever been shown to contain this sentence.

The wording’s origin is undocumented, so no copyright or public-domain status can be responsibly asserted. Because it cannot be tied to any known author or first publication, we mark the rights “uncertain” rather than claim it is public domain.

Fact-check

The misattribution

This is a textbook social-media misattribution: a tidy empowerment line attached to a famous, much-quoted woman with nothing behind it.

Popular creditMarilyn Monroe Unsupported

Repeated across quote sites and merchandise, but Wikiquote ↗ files it under “Misattributed” and notes it is “of unknown origin and date.” It appears in none of her films, interviews, letters, or her memoir.

True authorUnknown Undocumented

No earlier source in any other writer’s work has been identified; the sentence surfaces only as an uncredited caption, so its real origin remains unknown.

Best evidence: this is not a documented Marilyn Monroe quotation — it is an unsourced line of unknown origin ↗ later attached to her name.

Context

Why it sticks to her

Marilyn Monroe has become one of the internet’s largest “quote magnets”: short, affirming sentences about womanhood, confidence, and self-trust are routinely stamped with her name and photo because the pairing feels plausible and shares well. The absence of any citation is exactly what you would expect from a caption that originated online rather than in a documented source.

In this case even the aggregators that credit her offer no book, film, or interview — and the most careful reference, Wikiquote, explicitly flags the line as misattributed and of unknown origin.

A tidy empowerment line, a famous face, and no source in sight — the signature of a manufactured quote.

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Wrongly credited

About the wrongly-credited figure

Marilyn Monroe

1926–1962 · American actress, model & cultural icon

Marilyn Monroe (born Norma Jeane Mortenson) was one of Hollywood’s most enduring stars, known for films such as Some Like It Hot and Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. Decades after her death she became a magnet for feel-good and “empowerment” quotations pinned to her image with no source. This intuition line is one of many such attributions that cannot be traced to anything she actually said or wrote.

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Best-available documentation

“Marilyn Monroe,” Wikiquote, Misattributed section (accessed 2026): “A woman knows by intuition, or instinct, what is best for herself” — noted as “of unknown origin and date.”

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