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God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference

Not Francis of Assisi — the Serenity Prayer Reinhold Niebuhr
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Not Francis of Assisi. This is the familiar Serenity Prayer, generally credited to Reinhold Niebuhr; Winnifred Wygal's early records are central to its history, and the wording evolved.

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“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference” — Serenity Prayer, generally credited to Reinhold Niebuhr; familiar later wording, not Francis of Assisi.

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Serenity Prayer
Early documentation
Wygal diary, 1932; tripartite published prayer, 1933, as traced by Quote Investigator
Wording
Familiar later form; exact first printing not established

God grant me the serenity … and the wisdom to know the difference.

Quote Investigator: Serenity Prayer

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This is a twentieth-century prayer in an evolving wording. Without an identified first publication of the exact form, no public-domain clearance is asserted.

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Often misattributed

Francis's name is not supported: the documented trail ↗ concerns a modern prayer associated with Niebuhr and Wygal.

Incorrectly attributed to Francis of Assisi Unsupported attribution

Francis's name is not supported: the documented trail ↗ concerns a modern prayer associated with Niebuhr and Wygal.

Not Francis of Assisi. This is the familiar Serenity Prayer, generally credited to Reinhold Niebuhr; Winnifred Wygal's early records are central to its history, and the wording evolved.

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Why it mattered

The prayer reached readers through changing versions, rather than one fixed formula. Quote Investigator ↗ documents Wygal's early records and her credit to Niebuhr, which is a modern transmission history rather than evidence of a medieval Francis text.

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About Reinhold Niebuhr

Reinhold Niebuhr

1892–1971 · Theologian

Reinhold Niebuhr was an American Protestant theologian. The Serenity Prayer is closely associated with him, although its circulation and wording also owe much to Winnifred Wygal.

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Serenity Prayer, generally credited to Reinhold Niebuhr. Early records and variants traced in Quote Investigator, “Serenity Prayer,” December 24, 2019. Exact first publication of displayed wording unconfirmed.

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