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Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony

Merton’s thought, streamlined wording Thomas Merton 1915–1968
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No Man Is an Island, chapter 7, “Being and Doing,” p. 127 (1955)

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“Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony” — Thomas Merton, No Man Is an Island (1955), p. 127; streamlined wording, omitting repeated “and.” · Verbatim: “Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance and order and rhythm and harmony.”

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Source
No Man Is an Island, chapter 7, “Being and Doing,” p. 127
Evidence
Quote Investigator and the Merton Annual agree that Merton wrote the sentence with repeated “and”; the circulating version removes conjunctions.

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  • Quote Investigator reports checking the 1955 book on paper, chapter 7, page 127. Its conclusion accepts Merton’s authorship while distinguishing the streamlined wording.
  • The Merton Annual independently corrects the same variant in note 27 and gives the 1955 book and page. No original book page image was inspected here.
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The attribution question

Quote Investigator and the Merton Annual agree that Merton wrote the sentence with repeated “and”; the circulating version removes conjunctions.

Thomas Merton Wording or transmission context

The author is correct, but the original repeats “and” between the final nouns.

— Thomas Merton, No Man Is an Island (1955), p. 127; streamlined wording, omitting repeated “and.”

Context

Why it mattered

Merton’s chapter argues against expecting life to remain at its highest emotional intensity. His next comparison is with music, whose rhythm depends on silence as well as sound. The sentence concerns a sustainable pattern of life, rather than a rejection of joy.

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Quote Investigator analysisquoteinvestigator.com

Documents the genuine repeated-conjunction sentence, book, chapter and contemporary 1955 review.
Merton Annual correctionmerton.org

Note 27 explicitly corrects the shortened wording and cites No Man Is an Island (1955), p. 127.
Wikiquote: Mertonen.wikiquote.org

Quotation reference records the Merton attribution and its source or qualification; not an original manuscript.
Merton Center biographymerton.org

The university-based Merton Center documents his dates, monastic life, autobiography and writing on civil rights and nonviolence.

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About Thomas Merton

Thomas Merton

1915–1968

Thomas Merton (1915–1968) was a Trappist monk at the Abbey of Gethsemani in Kentucky. His autobiography The Seven Storey Mountain brought him a wide readership; his later writing and correspondence addressed contemplation, racial justice, nonviolence and dialogue across religious traditions.

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No Man Is an Island, chapter 7, “Being and Doing,” p. 127. 1955.

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