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He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has
This exact English wording is Fragment CXXIX in George Long’s 1877 translation of Epictetus’s Fragments (preserved in the anthology of Stobaeus), confirmed on both Wikisource and Perseus. Note that the Fragments collected by Stobaeus are of debated authenticity, and the words themselves are Long’s English rendering of a Greek original.
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