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Men are governed by lines of intellect - women: by curves of emotion

Adapted from a play by Oscar Wilde
Attribution status: Disputed Reuse status: Rights unconfirmed

This is a compressed version of dialogue in Wilde’s An Ideal Husband, Act IV. Lord Goring supplies the longer contrast between women’s emotions and men’s intellect; it is dramatic dialogue, not a documented personal pronouncement by Joyce.

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“Men are governed by lines of intellect - women: by curves of emotion” Compressed from Oscar Wilde, An Ideal Husband, Act IV (1895 production), a speech by Lord Goring; not a documented James Joyce remark. · Verbatim: “A woman’s life revolves in curves of emotions. It is upon lines of intellect that a man’s life progresses.”

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Provenance

The source

Work
An Ideal Husband, Act IV
Speaker
Lord Goring; the contrast is subsequently repeated by Lady Chiltern
Wording
The popular sentence compresses two sentences of dialogue

A woman’s life revolves in curves of emotions. It is upon lines of intellect that a man’s life progresses.

Wilde’s primary play

How we verified this

Wilde’s underlying English dialogue is public domain; the date and maker of the popular compression have not been established. The source excerpt reproduces the old play, while the headline identifies the circulating variant.

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Fact-check

Wilde’s dialogue, compressed and reassigned

A fictional speech became an author quotation.

Incorrectly attributed to James Joyce

Wikiquote ↗ identifies Wilde’s Act IV dialogue as the underlying source.

Credit Wilde’s play and identify the modern form as a compression.

Context

Why it mattered

Lord Goring wants Lady Chiltern to forgive her husband and preserve his political career. His appeal rests on a conspicuously unequal account of men’s ambitions and women’s marital duties; the surrounding dialogue matters when interpreting its claim.

The line is later echoed by Lady Chiltern as she accepts that advice. Pulling a compressed form out as a free-standing maxim obscures both its dramatic speaker and its place in the plot.

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About Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde

1854–1900 · Irish playwright and author

Oscar Wilde wrote social comedies, fiction and criticism, combining theatrical wit with criticism of respectable public appearances. An Ideal Husband places a politician’s concealed wrongdoing inside the expectations of marriage and public life.

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The primary source (Chicago)

Wilde, Oscar. An Ideal Husband. Act IV. Text checked in Project Gutenberg eBook 885; the play’s cast list records the January 3, 1895 production.

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