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The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints

Not George Carlin — actually Bob Moorehead Bob Moorehead
Attribution status: Disputed Reuse status: In copyright

The line opens “The Paradox of Our Age,” an essay by Dr. Bob Moorehead printed in his 1995 collection Words Aptly Spoken (Kirkland, WA: Overlake Christian Press), pp. 197–198. It reached the internet as an anonymous forward in 1998 and was pinned on Carlin, on the Dalai Lama, and on an unnamed Columbine student; Snopes rates the Carlin attribution False ↗ and Carlin denied it flatly in his lifetime.

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“The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints” not George Carlin. From "The Paradox of Our Age" by Dr. Bob Moorehead, in Words Aptly Spoken (Kirkland, WA: Overlake Christian Press, 1995), pp. 197–198. Carlin publicly denied writing it. Via Quotle.info

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Provenance

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“The Paradox of Our Age”
Collection
Words Aptly Spoken
Published
Kirkland, WA: Overlake Christian Press, 1995 — pp. 197–198
Author
Dr. Bob Moorehead, Overlake Christian Church

We have taller buildings but shorter tempers; wider freeways but narrower viewpoints; we spend more but have less; we buy more but enjoy it less… the essay runs on for two printed pages

That is the wording of the printed essay, which Snopes reproduces beside the forwarded email ↗. Two differences are worth noting: in print the piece is titled “The Paradox of Our Age,” and the famous framing clause — “The paradox of our time in history is that” — belongs to the circulated version rather than to the book text.

Words Aptly Spoken (1995) — Open Library catalogue record

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Who it gets pinned on

Few texts have been recredited as often as this one. The essay travelled for years as an anonymous forward, and each wave of email attached whichever name made it land hardest.

The whole essay, as “The Paradox of Our Time”George Carlin Denied by Carlin

Forwards from 1999 carried the header “GEORGE CARLIN (His wife recently died…)” — a hook referring to Brenda Carlin, who died on 11 May 1997. Carlin rejected it outright, calling it “a sappy load of shit” and adding that it was “not only bad prose and poetry, it’s weak philosophy.” Wikiquote files it under Misattributed and credits Bob Moorehead ↗.

The whole essayAn unnamed Columbine High School student

In 1999, after the 20 April Columbine shootings, copies circulated under the header “A Columbine High School student wrote…” — a framing Snopes describes as infusing the essay with the significance folks thirsted for ↗.

The whole essayThe Dalai Lama (and, elsewhere, Octavian Paler or plain “Anonymous”)

The homiletic cadence reads as generically spiritual once the church context is stripped away, and the piece has been recirculated under all three credits. Wikiquote lists them among the web hoaxes ↗.

First internet posting, not authorshipJeff Dickson

Dickson posted the essay to his Hacks-R-Us forum in May 1998, which is how it entered general circulation — but Snopes is explicit that the true author is not Dickson either ↗.

Credit belongs to Dr. Bob Moorehead: “The Paradox of Our Age,” in Words Aptly Spoken (Kirkland, WA: Overlake Christian Press, 1995), pp. 197–198 — the citation Snopes prints in full ↗.

Context

Why this one stuck to Carlin

The essay was written for a pulpit, not a stage. Moorehead used it as a monologue in sermons and on the radio, and it sat quietly in a church-press paperback until Jeff Dickson posted it to an online forum in May 1998. From there it became one of the defining chain emails of the early web — a text with no author attached, forwarded into a vacuum that readers kept filling in.

Carlin was a natural guess and a terrible one. He was famous for scanning modern life and finding it absurd, so the shape of the piece fit; its earnest, consoling tone did not fit him at all. That mismatch is exactly what he objected to. The forward also came with a grief hook — a claim he had written it after his wife’s death — and Brenda Carlin had in fact died on 11 May 1997, which made the story feel checkable to people who never checked it.

A text with no author attached, forwarded into a vacuum that readers kept filling in.

Read the full story

Snopes first addressed the essay on 19 March 2001, in a fact check by Barbara Mikkelson, and rated the Carlin claim False. Its source list cites the Moorehead book directly, down to the page range.

The most instructive detail is the wording drift. The book text begins “We have taller buildings but shorter tempers”; the version everyone quotes begins “The paradox of our time in history is that…”. The famous opening clause was welded on somewhere in transmission, along with a retitling from “The Paradox of Our Age” to “The Paradox of Our Time.” The quote most people can recite is therefore a lightly edited forward of a printed sermon — which is part of why tracing it back to a 1995 church-press paperback took a fact checker to do.

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The real author

Who was Bob Moorehead?

Bob Moorehead

American pastor & author · senior pastor, Overlake Christian Church, 1970–1998

Dr. Bob Moorehead led Overlake Christian Church in the Seattle suburbs from January 1970 until June 1998, building it from a small congregation into one of the region’s largest churches. Words Aptly Spoken (1995) gathered the prayers, homilies and monologues he used in sermons and on the radio — among them “The Paradox of Our Age,” which would go on to circulate worldwide under other people’s names. He resigned in 1998 amid allegations of sexual impropriety, and church elders later concluded he had violated the standards required of the office.

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Bob Moorehead, “The Paradox of Our Age,” in Words Aptly Spoken (Kirkland, WA: Overlake Christian Press, 1995), 197–98. Attribution to George Carlin rated False by Snopes, 19 March 2001.

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