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The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget

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The Second Sin, “Personal Conduct,” cited p. 51 (1973)

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“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget” — Attributed to Thomas Szasz, The Second Sin (1973), “Personal Conduct,” p. 51; original page not inspected.

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The Second Sin, “Personal Conduct,” cited p. 51
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Wikiquote gives the exact sentence, section and page; Szasz’s own CV confirms the 1973 book, but the original page was not inspected.

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  • Wikiquote transcribes this wording under The Second Sin, “Personal Conduct,” p. 51.
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  • No original page image was inspected; neither catalog evidence nor a neighboring quotation is treated as direct proof of this sentence.

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Why it mattered

The sentence is cited to “Personal Conduct” in Szasz’s The Second Sin. Its three-part structure separates forgiveness from forgetting, rather than treating the two as interchangeable. It belongs to a collection of provocative observations on human conduct, not a clinical instruction about memory or trauma.

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About Thomas Szasz

Thomas Szasz

1920–2012

Thomas Szasz (1920–2012) was a Hungarian-American psychiatrist and longtime professor at SUNY Upstate Medical University. Known for The Myth of Mental Illness, he challenged coercion and the use of psychiatric language as social control; The Second Sin presents his observations in aphoristic form.

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The Second Sin, “Personal Conduct,” cited p. 51. 1973.

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