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To live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering

Not Viktor Frankl — actually Gordon W. Allport Gordon W. Allport
Attribution status: Disputed Reuse status: In copyright

The sentence is Allport’s, not Frankl’s. It appears verbatim in the preface Allport wrote for the first English edition of Frankl’s memoir, published as From Death-Camp to Existentialism (Beacon Press, 1959) and reissued as Man’s Search for Meaning: “It is here that we encounter the central theme of existentialism: to live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering.” Allport was summarising Frankl’s argument in his own words — which is why the line rides inside Frankl’s book while never being written by him.

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“To live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering” Gordon W. Allport, preface to Viktor E. Frankl, "From Death-Camp to Existentialism" (Boston: Beacon Press, 1959), later reissued as "Man's Search for Meaning." Commonly misattributed to Frankl himself, and more often to Friedrich Nietzsche.

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Provenance

The preface, not the memoir

Work
Man’s Search for Meaning
Section
Preface, signed GORDON W. ALLPORT
First English edition
From Death-Camp to Existentialism: A Psychiatrist’s Path to a New Therapy (Boston: Beacon Press, 1959)
Translation
Frankl’s narrative translated from the 1946 German by Ilse Lasch; Allport’s preface was written in English and needs no translation

But these moments of comfort do not establish the will to live unless they help the prisoner make larger sense out of his apparently senseless suffering. It is here that we encounter the central theme of existentialism: to live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in the suffering.

Allport’s paragraph continues with “If there is a purpose in life at all, there must be a purpose in suffering and in dying,” and closes by noting that Frankl is fond of quoting Nietzsche — the adjacency that almost certainly seeded the Nietzsche credit.

From Death-Camp to Existentialism (Beacon Press, 1959) at the Internet Archive

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Two wrong names, one real one

This line is credited to two different men who did not write it, and almost never to the man who did.

The dominant misattributionFriedrich Nietzsche fabricated

Usually in the variant “to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering,” which circulates on quotation sites under Nietzsche’s name — one Goodreads entry alone carries 923 likes ↗. No work of Nietzsche’s contains it; the credit appears to be an artefact of Allport ending the same paragraph by quoting Nietzsche.

The plausible misattributionViktor E. Frankl wrong speaker

The sentence really is inside Frankl’s book, which makes the credit feel safe — and quotation databases repeat it, filing the line under Frankl with the 1959 edition as its source ↗. But it belongs to the preface, and Frankl did not write the preface.

What Frankl actually wroteViktor E. Frankl (his own wording) paraphrased

Frankl’s own formulation of the idea is longer and differently phrased: “If there is a meaning in life at all, then there must be a meaning in suffering” ↗. The thought is his; the famous compression is not.

The wording is Gordon W. Allport’s, from the preface he wrote for the 1959 Beacon Press first English edition ↗ of Frankl’s memoir.

Context

How a preface became a proverb

Frankl’s memoir was written in German in 1946 as Ein Psychologe erlebt das Konzentrationslager. When Beacon Press brought it to American readers in 1959 as From Death-Camp to Existentialism, it arrived with a preface by Gordon W. Allport — then one of the most influential psychologists in the United States — whose endorsement was the book’s passport into American psychology. Allport used that preface to compress Frankl’s argument into a single memorable clause, and readers have been quoting the compression ever since.

Frankl did make the underlying claim, in his own words and at greater length: “If there is a meaning in life at all, then there must be a meaning in suffering.” What he never wrote is the tighter, more aphoristic sentence that now circulates under his name — or, more often still, under Nietzsche’s. It is a clean example of how front matter escapes a book: a summariser’s phrasing outruns the author’s own.

Allport was paraphrasing Frankl. The paraphrase is what survived.

Why the Nietzsche credit stuck

Allport’s paragraph ends by noting that Frankl is fond of quoting Nietzsche — “He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how.” A reader skimming the page finds an existentialist-sounding aphorism a few lines above a Nietzsche citation, and the two fuse. The variant that dominates search results, “to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering,” is the Nietzsche-credited form.

Nietzsche did write near this territory — on suffering being willed when a meaning for it is shown — but that is a different sentence in a different book, and no Nietzsche text contains the wording in circulation.

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Who actually wrote it

Gordon W. Allport

1897–1967 · American personality psychologist, Harvard University

Gordon Willard Allport was an American psychologist and a founding figure of personality psychology, on the Harvard faculty from 1930 until his death in 1967 and a former editor of the Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology. He is best known for trait theory and for The Nature of Prejudice. His preface to Viktor Frankl’s concentration-camp memoir did more than any other single piece of writing to introduce logotherapy to American readers — and, unintentionally, produced one of the most-quoted sentences in the self-help canon.

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Gordon W. Allport, preface to Viktor E. Frankl, From Death-Camp to Existentialism: A Psychiatrist’s Path to a New Therapy, trans. Ilse Lasch (Boston: Beacon Press, 1959). The same preface is carried in later Beacon Press editions published as Man’s Search for Meaning.

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