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Well-behaved women seldom make history

Written by Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
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First written in 1976, in the scholarly article “Vertuous Women Found”American Quarterly, page 20.

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“Well-behaved women seldom make history” — Laurel Thatcher Ulrich (1976)

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Vertuous Women Found: New England Ministerial Literature, 1668–1735
Published in
American Quarterly, Vol. 28, No. 1 (Spring 1976), pp. 20–40
Type
Peer-reviewed scholarly journal article
Where
The opening paragraph, page 20

Well-behaved women seldom make history; against Antinomians and witches, these pious matrons have had little chance at all. ↑ the popular version keeps only the first clause

Ulrich wasn't urging women to misbehave. Read whole, the sentence laments the opposite — that ordinary, dutiful women left almost no trace in the record. Dropping the second clause flips her meaning.

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Often misattributed

Because it spread on merchandise — often unsigned — this line gets handed to whichever famous woman feels right. It belongs to none of them. Here's the disproof for each:

Incorrectly attributed to Marilyn Monroe

A 2002 quote book printed it under her name. But Monroe died in 1962 — fourteen years before the sentence was written. Documented by Quote Investigator ↗

Incorrectly attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt

One of the two most common misattributions online. Fact-checkers found no such line in her writings. Rated false by Check Your Fact ↗

Occasionally attributed to Anne Boleyn, or “Anonymous” rare

On merchandise the line often circulated with no name at all — and, unsigned, it was sometimes reassigned to a Tudor queen. Drifting away from its author is exactly how the confusion began. Background ↗

It's also usually misquoted. Ulrich wrote “seldom.” The viral “rarely make history” was introduced by journalist Kay Mills, who used the line as a 1995 book epigraph — seeding it in print before it spread online around 1996. The “seldom”→“rarely” change, documented ↗

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Why it mattered

Ulrich wrote the line as a graduate student — not as a slogan, but as the opening move of a scholarly argument that helped reshape women's history: the field had fixated on exceptional or rebellious figures while the ordinary majority, who left few records, went unstudied.

It was a call to recover the lives of the obscure — the opposite of a call to misbehave.

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She would model exactly that recovery: her 1990 book A Midwife's Tale, reconstructing the life of an ordinary Maine midwife from her diary, won the Pulitzer Prize. The irony is that her one line about the forgotten was itself lifted out of context, re-worded, and re-assigned — becoming one of the most quoted, mis-quoted, and mis-attributed sentences in American feminism.

In 2007 she reclaimed it, writing a whole book to explain what it really meant.

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About Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

Born July 11, 1938, Sugar City, Idaho · Historian of early America

A pioneering historian of women's lives, Ulrich won the 1991 Pulitzer Prize and the Bancroft Prize for A Midwife's Tale, and was named a MacArthur Fellow in 1992. She is a University Professor Emerita at Harvard — and coined her most famous line as a graduate student.

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Primary source — Chicago

Ulrich, Laurel Thatcher. “Vertuous Women Found: New England Ministerial Literature, 1668–1735.” American Quarterly 28, no. 1 (1976): 20–40.

MLA (9th ed.)

Ulrich, Laurel Thatcher. “Vertuous Women Found: New England Ministerial Literature, 1668–1735.” American Quarterly, vol. 28, no. 1, 1976, pp. 20–40.

APA (7th ed.)

Ulrich, L. T. (1976). Vertuous women found: New England ministerial literature, 1668–1735. American Quarterly, 28(1), 20–40.

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