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What matters is precisely this, the unspoken at the edge of the spoken

Not Virginia Woolf — actually Eavan Boland Eavan Boland 1944–2020 · Irish poet and essayist
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The words come from Boland’s essay “Letter to a Young Woman Poet” (1997), later collected in A Journey with Two Maps (2011). She wrote “what matters is language. Is the unspoken at the edge of the spoken.” The popular “What matters is precisely this” is a reworded version, and the Woolf diary entry it is usually credited to does not exist.

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“What matters is precisely this, the unspoken at the edge of the spoken” Eavan Boland, "Letter to a Young Woman Poet" (1997). Often misattributed to Virginia Woolf. · Verbatim: “And so in the last light, at the end of the day, what matters is language. Is the unspoken at the edge of the spoken.”

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Provenance

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Work
Letter to a Young Woman Poet
Author
Eavan Boland
Published
PN Review 118 (vol. 24, no. 2), Nov–Dec 1997; collected in A Journey with Two Maps (W. W. Norton, 2011)
Woolf claim
Credited to Woolf’s diary for 21 July 1912. No such entry exists.

…presence shapes what I am saying. And so in the last light, at the end of the day, what matters is language. Is the unspoken at the edge of the spoken. And so I have made a fiction… Boland’s original wording

This is the passage as it appears in the Internet Archive full-text index of three printed editions: By Herself (Graywolf, 2000), Word: On Being a [Woman] Writer (Feminist Press, 2004) and A Journey with Two Maps (Norton, 2011). The viral version replaces Boland’s “what matters is language. Is” with “What matters is precisely this,” and leaves out the reference to language.

Eavan Boland, A Journey with Two Maps (Norton, 2011) at the Internet Archive

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In copyright

The words are Eavan Boland’s, from “Letter to a Young Woman Poet.” The essay was copyrighted in 1997 and collected in A Journey with Two Maps (2011). Any work first published in 1931 or later is still in copyright in the US, so this essay is in copyright. It is not a public-domain Woolf text.

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Why it gets pinned on Woolf

The fragment sounds like Woolf: it is lyrical, it is about silence, and it is short enough to share. Online it usually comes with a precise-looking diary date. That date turns out to be invented.

Virginia Woolf (Diary, 21 July 1912) Misattributed

The Virginia Woolf Society of Great Britain ↗ reports that Woolf’s diary has no entry for that date or for that year, and puts the line among its misattributions.

“What matters is precisely this” Reworded

Boland’s text, as indexed in A Journey with Two Maps ↗, reads “what matters is language. Is the unspoken at the edge of the spoken.” The popular version swaps in “precisely this” and drops the word “language,” which is the subject of Boland’s sentence.

BOMB magazine interview (2023) Repeated

A 2023 BOMB interview ↗ credits the phrase to Woolf (“as Woolf would say”), showing that the misattribution has reached literary publications.

The line is Eavan Boland’s, from “Letter to a Young Woman Poet” (1997): “what matters is language. Is the unspoken at the edge of the spoken.” See the Virginia Woolf Society of Great Britain ↗.

Context

What Boland was saying

“Letter to a Young Woman Poet” is addressed to an imagined poet of the future. It opens: “I wish I knew you.” Near its close Boland says that what matters “in the last light, at the end of the day” is language, and she describes language as “the unspoken at the edge of the spoken.”

Without the word “language,” the viral version becomes a general remark about silence. Its rhythm also sounds like Woolf, which helps explain how it came to carry her name and an invented diary date.

What matters is language. Is the unspoken at the edge of the spoken. — Eavan Boland, 1997

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Misquotations and Misattributionsvirginiawoolfsociety.org.uk

The Virginia Woolf Society of Great Britain’s list of misattributions. It covers this line and names Boland as the source.
Letter to a Young Woman Poet (PN Review 118)pnreview.co.uk

Boland’s essay in PN Review 118, November–December 1997.
A Journey with Two Maps (Norton, 2011)archive.org

The Internet Archive record of Boland’s prose collection, which contains the essay.
By Herself: Women Reclaim Poetry (Graywolf, 2000)archive.org

An anthology that reprints the essay with a “copyright © 1997 by Eavan Boland” credit.
Virginia Woolf on Wikiquoteen.wikiquote.org

Woolf’s sourced quotations. The page does not list this line and refers readers to the Woolf Society’s misquotations page.
Eavan Bolanden.wikipedia.org

A biography of the poet, with her dates and works.

Who actually wrote it

About the real author

Eavan Boland

1944–2020 · Irish poet, essayist & Stanford professor

Eavan Boland (1944–2020) was an Irish poet and essayist, born and died in Dublin. From 1996 she was a tenured professor of English at Stanford University, where she directed the creative writing program. Her prose collection A Journey with Two Maps: Becoming a Woman Poet (2011) ends with “Letter to a Young Woman Poet,” the essay this line is taken from.

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Boland, Eavan. “Letter to a Young Woman Poet.” PN Review 118, vol. 24, no. 2 (November–December 1997). Reprinted in A Journey with Two Maps: Becoming a Woman Poet. New York: W. W. Norton, 2011.

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