This one is genuine. It is the prophet’s first sentence in the chapter “On Pain” in The Prophet, published in New York by Alfred A. Knopf in September 1923 — a book Gibran wrote in English, so no translator stands between him and the wording. The full 1923 text carries the line exactly as it circulates, followed immediately by the image that completes it: “Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.”
“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding” Kahlil Gibran, "On Pain," The Prophet (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1923). Gibran wrote The Prophet in English; the wording is his own, not a translation. Verified against the full 1923 text. Via quotle.info · Verbatim: “Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.”
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Work
The Prophet
Chapter
“On Pain” — the prophet’s reply to a woman who asks him to speak of pain
First published
New York: Alfred A. Knopf, September 1923
Translation
None — Gibran wrote The Prophet in English
And a woman spoke, saying, Tell us of Pain. And he said: Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
The Prophet, 1923
Quote aggregators almost always print the first sentence alone. In the book it is the opening of a longer answer that goes on to say “Much of your pain is self-chosen” and to describe it as the bitter potion of a physician within.
Read the full text of The Prophet ↗, whose transcription reproduces the original title and copyright pages — “New York: Alfred A. Knopf / 1923”, “Copyright 1923 by Kahlil Gibran”, “Published September 1923”. The chapter “On Pain” opens with this sentence, word for word.
Wikiquote ↗ lists the line in its sourced section for The Prophet (1923). Its separate Misattributed section names three other lines commonly credited to Gibran; this is not among them.
The Academy of American Poets publishes “On Pain” ↗ with the credit “From The Prophet (Knopf, 1923). This poem is in the public domain.”
No translation question arises: Wikipedia ↗ records that Gibran wrote The Prophet in English, so the familiar wording is his own rather than a translator’s.
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The Prophet was first published in the United States by Alfred A. Knopf in September 1923, well before the 1931 cutoff, so the book — including this sentence — is in the public domain in the US. Project Gutenberg ↗ carries it as “Public domain in the USA,” and because Gibran wrote the book in English there is no separate translation copyright layered on top.
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The company it keeps
This line is authentic, which makes it the exception on the pages where it usually appears. Gibran is one of the internet’s busiest magnets for invented wisdom, and the aggregator lists that carry this sentence routinely carry these alongside it — two lines he never wrote at all, one garbled paraphrase of a line he did, and a note on how his name is spelled.
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Not Gibran at allEdwin Hubbell Chapin Real author identified
“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars” is Chapin’s, quoted in Josiah Hotchkiss Gilbert’s Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895) — as Wikiquote records ↗.
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Not Gibran at allUnknown — no source traced No source exists
“Travel and tell no one. Have a true love story and tell no one…” is described by Wikiquote ↗ as not attributable to any source, popularised in August 2016.
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Gibran, but garbledKahlil Gibran (paraphrased) Wording changed
“And God said, Love your enemy, & I obeyed Him & loved myself” is a paraphrase ↗ of his actual line, “My enemy said to me, ‘Love your enemy.’ And I obeyed him and loved myself.”
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Spelling“Khalil” vs “Kahlil” Cosmetic
Both spellings circulate, and either will find the right man. For the record, the 1923 title page ↗ reads “THE PROPHET — By Kahlil Gibran.”
The Prophet is built on a single frame: the prophet Almustafa, about to sail home after twelve years abroad, is stopped by the townspeople who each ask him to speak on one thing — love, work, children, freedom, death. The book runs to twenty-six of these short prose-poem answers. This line is his first sentence in reply to a woman who asks him to speak of pain, and everything else in the chapter unfolds from it: the fruit stone that must break, the physician within, the seasons of the heart.
The book was a slow burn rather than an overnight hit. It has never gone out of print since 1923, sold its one millionth copy in 1957, and by 2012 had sold more than nine million copies in its American edition alone; it has been translated into more than 100 languages and ranks among the most translated books in history.
Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
The line has a second life in pain medicine
Because the sentence makes a clinical-sounding claim — that pain is a mechanism of understanding — it turns up in therapy rooms and on clinic walls, and not everyone in the field is comfortable with that. The International Association for the Study of Pain reprinted the whole “On Pain” passage and asked its own readers to decide, framing the question bluntly: “Is it inspired, prophetic, helpful? Is it defensible on scientific grounds, is it appropriate for patients, should it be on your clinic wall? Or is it wet, gratuitous and unhelpful?”
The commonest distortion is not a misattribution but an amputation. Quote aggregators almost always print the first sentence alone, which leaves the claim bare and a little glib. Gibran does not leave it bare: the next line supplies the fruit-stone image that gives the assertion its argument, and the chapter goes on to concede that “Much of your pain is self-chosen.”
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1883–1931 · Lebanese-American poet, writer & artist
Born in Bsharri, in what was then the Mount Lebanon district of the Ottoman Empire, on 6 January 1883, Gibran emigrated to the United States in 1895 at the age of twelve and settled in Boston with his mother and siblings. He worked as a visual artist as well as a writer — the twelve illustrations in The Prophet are reproduced from his own drawings. He died in New York City on 10 April 1931, aged 48; The Prophet, published eight years earlier, has never gone out of print and has been translated into more than 100 languages.
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Kahlil Gibran, “On Pain,” in The Prophet (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1923). Written in English; no translation involved. Verified against the full 1923 text as transcribed by Project Gutenberg (eBook #58585).
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